Some things to think about as you proceed.
- SSR drops \$1.6V\$, according to your link. At \$12A\$, you are \$\approx 20W\$ dissipation with the SSR. I'd plan for even more dissipation to be safer. You need to consider an attached heat sink for it.
- EMR relays can come powered either by the AC line voltage (using a shading pole or shorted turn embedded into one end of the armature) or some DC voltage. You could consider using an AC relay that operates from 240VAC and including a MOC3023 or MOC3063 (one triggers at the zero crossing, the other doesn't care) opto in order to turn it on safely. This moves the relay power requirement to your line instead of your DC supply for the AVR, though you still need 5mA for the opto. But the coil dissipation for the EMR you listed is 0.9W. And any power supply you use for your micro system will have to include that. That's a lot, by comparison. So "shifting the load" may offer an advantage worth considering.
- If you want to get fancy (and since you are including a micro, you can do that), you could consider the combined use of an SSR and EMR. The SSR is triggered first and operates for some designated period of time while you then activate the EMR and wait for it to be engaged. Then drop out the SSR, leaving the EMR handling the load. A similar process turns things off, as well. You may be able to consider avoiding the heat sink on the SSR this way, if you can assure yourself that you won't overheat it. (Or you can get fancy and possibly even include a bimetal switch taken from a fish tank heater, for example, that will open if things get hot -- which may be smaller than the heat sink.) But another advantage is that the contacts on the EMR won't be subjected to arcing and so will probably last longer, as well. This is called a "hybrid" relay. You can google it. You will have to carefully consider your situation if you do this, though. It has advantages and disadvantages.
- A relay I chose looked like this: JQX-40F 1Z 40A 110VAC. But I'm working with 110VAC here. But that provides another kind of mounting you might look for.
Just some thoughts to consider. Since you will be putting this into a proto box of some kind, mounting is probably best left to your ingenuity.
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The EMR you linked specs \$\approx 1W\$ to hold it engaged. Actually, within spec, it could even be slightly more. At \$5V\$, that's \$200mA\$. Your DC power supply will need to support that load, plus whatever else is required of your DC supply. By comparison, a MOC3023 requires \$5mA\$ to operate an AC relay coil, which itself draws its power from the line and itself only uses perhaps \$30mW\$. It's lower power all around. I'm not telling you to use one. Use what you feel is best. I'm just suggesting an alternative to consider.
Don't use the SSR to power the EMR. I was offering a thought about using an SSR in parallel to an EMR. For more details, I suggest you google "hybrid relay" and see what comes up. In this case, you protect the mechanical contacts of the EMR using an SSR. There are some nice youtube videos illustrating the elimination of arcing under power using this method. But since what I wrote wasn't clear, I recommend you avoid this idea for now.
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