Yes VCC on the chip is for 5V; 4.5 to 5.5V is the recommended operating range in the datasheet. The chip you referenced has 8 inputs and 8 outputs; effectively 8 channels. They are grouped into two sets of four channels, where each set of four can be enabled independently via separate active-low output enable signals. That means you connect either output enable signal to GND in order to enable the associated channels, or to 5V to disable the associated channels.
Now VGA, as I understand it, has at least 5 signals that need to get to a monitor: HSYNC, VSYNC, Red, Green, and Blue. It has 7 if you include the EDID lines (SDA and SCL essentially). If you want to route those 5 signals to one of two different places, I don't see a way to do that with only 8 channels - I think you need at least 10, so you could do it with two chips.
Incidentally, there is at least one chip on the market that seems like it's particularly well suited to the task you are describing: Texas Instruments TS5V522C. Another one would be NXP NX5DV715.
Here's how you should wire your switch (two ways):

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Either way will work, one is not better than the other. Here /OE1 refers to the ganged output enable for chip #1 and /OE2 refers to the ganged output enable for chip #2. If you had a DPDT switch you could do this (no resistors required):

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