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Figure 1. Combined relay / switch + SSR.
Keep the relay or switch for safe isolation and lockout. A high-voltage DC SSR can be installed on either or both legs of the circuit. You need to meet:
- Blocking voltage (> 1k V and maybe > 2 kV for safety) for your 1 kV supply.
- Isolation voltage (> 2 kV) to prevent insulation breakdown between the high voltage and low voltage circuits.
- Switching current (> 5 A) and allow for any surge due to cold resistance of the load, etc.).
A quick search found Sensitron devices, for example.
Your control system can now turn on RLY1 and leave it on in normal operation while using the SSR for normal control. This gives you the advantages of low cycles and wear and tear on the relay while maintaining the ability to isolate safely.