When an inductor is connected with a voltage source we get equal and opposite voltage on inductor against the source voltage.
Yes.
That equal and opposite voltage gradually decreases with time ...
No.
...which allows the current(caused by the source voltage) to rise gradually.
No. The current started rising gradually the moment the voltage was applied. The back EMF is given by \$V=L\frac{dI}{dt}\$. For there to be a back EMF, there has to be a changing current.
My question is what makes the equal and opposite voltage in an inductor to fall gradually ?
I wonder what makes you think the back EMF from the inductor falls below the applied voltage?
If the inductor has resistance, then the voltage drop caused by current through the resistance reduces the voltage seen by the inductance, and with that, the rate of change of current drops. A reduced rate of change of current means a reduced back EMF. You'll notice that the back EMF was always equal to the voltage seen by the inductance all along.
In the circuit theory model of inductors, the applied voltage and change of current are always related by \$V=L\frac{dI}{dt}\$. One does not cause the other, they both occur at the same time.
There is a deeper model for an inductor, that of a shorted transmission line. Let's put some figures on it for the sake of illustration. Say we have a 100 ohm transmission line with an electrical length of 10 uS, shorted at the far end, and apply a step 10 V to it.
At t=0, a current of 100 mA will begin to flow, while a +10 V + 100mA step is launched into the line. After 10 uS the step hits the far end and, finding a short circuit, which allows any current but zero volts, reflects a -10 V + 100mA step. The current in the s/c at the end of the line is now 200 mA. After another 10 uS, the step reaches our launch point, where it finds a short circuit, the zero output impedance of our voltage source. It therefore reflects a +10 V +100 mA step into the line. The current supplied by the source now rises to 300mA. Rinse and repeat, indefinitely.
As the wave travels the length of the line and back, you can see that the current in the line is rising by 100 mA every 10 uS. The shorted line is behaving as an inductor, with a rate of current rise proportional to the applied voltage. The inductance exhibited is proportional to the line impedance, and to the length of the line. We can increase the line impedance and reduce the length while keeping their product constant to get the 'steppy' current increase as smooth as we like.
There is a model deeper than transmission lines, but it's quantum mechanics, with photons being emitted and absorbed to transmit the electrical effects, and I'm frankly not up to that.