The thing about LEDs is that they are current driven devices, not voltage driven.
The formula you will see bouncing around the internet about how to calculate the series resistor for an LED (\$R = \frac {V_{Supply}-V_{forward}}{I_{forward}}\$) is an approximation that holds true as long as \$V_{Supply}\$ is higher than \$V_{forward}\$.
LEDs don't just "snap" to life as soon as you cross \$V_{forward}\$. There's a curve of current versus voltage, with \$V_{forward}\$ rising as \$I_{forward}\$ increases.
This is a current/voltage plot for a blue LED picked at random out of my junk box:

Note that it is already conducting well before the typically quoted "3.5V" for blue LEDs. The forward voltage increases as the current is increased. At the end of the scale, \$I_{forward}\$ is about 2 milliampers and \$V_{forward}\$ is about 2.7V. What you can't see on the chart is that the LED was already eye-searingly bright with just those lousy 2 mA.
The expected 3.5V for a blue LED occurs somewhere near the maximum rated current of the LED (typically 20mA for indicator LEDs.) You don't need that much current just to indicate power on status - you can get away with far less.
What you should do is to use the formula (\$R = \frac {V_{Supply}-V_{forward}}{I_{forward}}\$) to calculate the worst case resistor value (never go under that value.) Use the full rated current and the lower end of the expected \$V_{forward}\$ to calculate a resistor value. That is the minimum resistance for use with a particular \$V_{forward}\$ and \$V_{Supply}\$. You can safely use a larger value resistor - the LED will be dimmer but nothing bad will happen.
In your case, you can't use the typical formula because you are outside of the conditions it is valid in.
You have a setup that lights up and doesn't immediately destroy the LED. Measure the voltage drop across the resistor, then use Ohm's law to figure the current through the resistor (this is also the current through the LED.) It'll most certainly be below 20mA. Any resistor value above that ought to be safe. Anything lower and you will need to measure the current again.
If you have a current/voltage plot of your LED, then you could pick a \$I_{forward}\$ from the chart and read off the \$V_{forward}\$ then use the above formula to determine a resistor value.
For example, for my LED, I picked \$I_{forward} = 1mA\$. That relates to \$V_{forward} = 2.6V\$ . I figure about 700 ohms in series with \$V_{Supply}= 3.3V\$ would work out about right (for \$I_{forward} = 1mA\$)
Some LED datasheets will have a current/voltage chart, some won't. With the typical mixed grab bag stuff hobbyists get from Amazon or e-Bay or wherever, you won't have a current/voltage chart.
You can make them yourself if you have (or make) a small I/V plotter.