I found the only isolated gate driver on the market! It's all perfect, only doesn't have the deadtime circuit - the other part number is out of stock.
I am willing to change the layout and add my own circuit, but it should be cheap, it's a big batch. It should also be reliable for the same reason.
I thought about logic and delays with an RC circuit (has to be at least 200nsec, so not just a buffer for the delay,) but it seems odd.
Are there other ideas?
The current decision is to go with a logic buffer and a small (160MHz) filter on the command lines.