Poles
Let's look at two 1st order systems:

simulate this circuit – Schematic created using CircuitLab
Then the KCL for these are (left column for the above left-side schematic and right column for the above right-side schematic):
$$
\begin{array}{c|c}
\begin{array}{rl}
\frac{v_{_\text{OUT}}}{R_1}+\frac{v_{_\text{OUT}}}{R_2}+C_1\frac{\text{d}}{\text{d}t}v_{_\text{OUT}}&=\frac{v_{_\text{IN}}}{R_2}
\\\\
\frac{\text{d}}{\text{d}t}v_{_\text{OUT}}+\frac1{\left(R_1\vert\vert R_2\right)C_1}v_{_\text{OUT}}&=\frac1{R_2\,C_1}v_{_\text{IN}}
\\\\
\left[D+\frac1{\left(R_1\vert\vert R_2\right)C_1}\right]v_{_\text{OUT}}&=\frac1{R_2\,C_1}v_{_\text{IN}}
\end{array}
&
\begin{array}{rl}
\frac{v_{_\text{OUT}}}{R_1}+C_1\frac{\text{d}}{\text{d}t}v_{_\text{OUT}}+C_2\frac{\text{d}}{\text{d}t}v_{_\text{OUT}}&=C_2\frac{\text{d}}{\text{d}t}v_{_\text{IN}}
\\\\
\frac{\text{d}}{\text{d}t}v_{_\text{OUT}}+\frac1{R_1\left(C_1+ C_2\right)}v_{_\text{OUT}}&=\frac{C_2}{C_1+C_2}\frac{\text{d}}{\text{d}t}v_{_\text{IN}}
\\\\
\left[D+\frac1{R_1\left(C_1+ C_2\right)}\right]v_{_\text{OUT}}&=\frac{C_2}{C_1+C_2}\:D\:v_{_\text{IN}}
\end{array}
\end{array}
$$
(Note: Here, \$D=\frac{\text{d}}{\text{d}t}\$, the differential operator with respect to time. Not to be confused with another differential operator use where \$D=\text{d}\$ and implies the product-rule applied with respect to all variables of interest and not just time.)
Now, neither of these are homogeneous.
Suppose they were homogeneous:
$$
\begin{array}{c|c}
\begin{array}{rl}
{\hphantom{\frac{v_{_\text{OUT}}}{R_1}+\frac{v_{_\text{OUT}}}{R_2}+C_1\frac{\text{d}}{\text{d}t}v_{_\text{OUT}}}}\llap{\left[D+\frac1{\left(R_1\vert\vert R_2\right)C_1}\right]v_{_\text{OUT}}}&={\hphantom{\frac1{R_2\,C_1}v_{_\text{IN}}}}\llap{0}
\end{array}
&
\begin{array}{rl}
\hphantom{\frac{v_{_\text{OUT}}}{R_1}+C_1\frac{\text{d}}{\text{d}t}v_{_\text{OUT}}+C_2\frac{\text{d}}{\text{d}t}v_{_\text{OUT}}}\llap{\left[D+\frac1{R_1\left(C_1+ C_2\right)}\right]v_{_\text{OUT}}}&=\hphantom{\frac{C_2}{C_1+C_2}\:D\:v_{_\text{IN}}}\llap{0}
\end{array}
\end{array}
$$
Then this means that the brackets surround what's called an annihilator. An annihilator of the form \$\left[D-r\right]\$ represents a solution term of the form \$A\, e^{r t}\$.
(We'll have to return to the concept of annihilators when getting back onto the topic of non-homogeneous equations and zeroes.)
Note that there's no longer a time-dependent input source voltage. Instead, I just set that side to zero (so it's grounded.) So there's only a need to work out the value of \$A\$ based upon initial conditions. Other than that the problems are both solved.
Returning to the earlier non-homogeneous equations, we can re-arrange them so that I can move on to the point about poles:
$$
\begin{array}{c|c}
\begin{array}{rl}
{\hphantom{\frac{v_{_\text{OUT}}}{R_1}+\frac{v_{_\text{OUT}}}{R_2}+C_1\frac{\text{d}}{\text{d}t}v_{_\text{OUT}}}}\llap{\frac{R_1}{R_1+R_2}\cdot \frac{\frac1{\left(R_1\vert\vert R_2\right)\,C_1}}{D+\frac1{\left(R_1\vert\vert R_2\right)\,C_1}}}&={\hphantom{\frac1{R_2\,C_1}v_{_\text{IN}}}}\llap{\frac{v_{_\text{OUT}}}{v_{_\text{IN}}}}
\end{array}
&
\begin{array}{rl}
\hphantom{\frac{v_{_\text{OUT}}}{R_1}+C_1\frac{\text{d}}{\text{d}t}v_{_\text{OUT}}+C_2\frac{\text{d}}{\text{d}t}v_{_\text{OUT}}}\llap{\frac{C_2}{C_1+C_2}\cdot\frac{D}{D+\frac1{R_1\left(C_1+ C_2\right)}}}&=\hphantom{\frac{C_2}{C_1+C_2}\:D\:v_{_\text{IN}}}\llap{\frac{v_{_\text{OUT}}}{v_{_\text{IN}}}}
\end{array}
\end{array}
$$
I'd earlier written in comments, "It's poles directly define the homogeneous response." Here, you can now see why I said that. (Note the homogeneous response in the denominator?)
The actual equations developed for the two simple circuits also each involve a nonhomogeneity that must be dealt with. (I've stayed in the time domain, though I'm sure by now you can readily see a distinct similarity with Laplace forms.)
But at least the meaning of pole may have been slightly expanded. They are the homogeneous response.
Zeros
Just setting \$v_{_\text{IN}}=0\:\text{V}\$ might make the solutions a lot easier. But it's not the case where nonhomogeneities remain because \$v_{_\text{IN}}\ne 0\:\text{V}\$ (and is likely some function of time.)
This also means that the bracketed factors shown earlier are no longer annihilators. (We'll need to fix that problem.)
Obviously, any transfer function zeros must somehow be related to these nonhomogeneities. In fact, the nonhomogeneities/zeroes in the transfer function are directly related to the input signals and external forces acting on the system.
To see that obvious fact, let's return to the earlier equations:
$$
\begin{array}{c|c}
\begin{array}{rl}
\left[D+\frac1{\left(R_1\vert\vert R_2\right)C_1}\right]v_{_\text{OUT}}&=\frac1{R_2\,C_1}v_{_\text{IN}}
\end{array}
&
\begin{array}{rl}
\left[D+\frac1{R_1\left(C_1+ C_2\right)}\right]v_{_\text{OUT}}&=\frac{C_2}{C_1+C_2}\:D\:v_{_\text{IN}}
\end{array}
\end{array}
$$
Clear enough.
Let's also assume that \$v_{_\text{IN}}=V_{_0}\cos\left(\omega\,t\right)\$.
If we knew of an annihilator for \$v_{_\text{IN}}\$ then we could simply apply it to both the left and right sides (to get \$0\$ on the right side.) Then we'd just solve the resulting homogeneous equation.
It turns out that \$\left[D^2+\omega^2\right]\$ is just such an annihilator for \$v_{_\text{IN}}=V_{_0}\cos\left(\omega\,t\right)\$.
(For a glimpse as to how distinct zeroes in the numerator can be converted into gain factors applied to the homogeneous response, see [here](https://electronics.stackexchange.com/a/632840/38098. I'm leaving remaining discussion on the idea of zeroes until I hear more from you and have the time to consider and reply.)