I'm currently working on my very first SMT PCB, and would like to connect a number of PCBs to the main PCB using spring loaded pogo pins like these:     
http://uk.farnell.com/harwin/p19-2221/probe-convex-1-90mm-pitch/dp/9960171
    
My question is in 2 parts:     

1)    

What kind of connection would you use for the 'female'?     
I wanted to use some small pads like the ones shown here:         https://www.harwin.com/product-highlights/pogo-pins-pads/
Somebody suggested leaving plated through holes where the pins would connect but I am skeptical about the long term durability of this method. 

2) How would I best go about implementing that type of connection on an eagle schematic / PCB?