The request is to see if the motor is plugged in or not, yes?
I faced a similar problem for a product, to detect if a display panel was plugged in. My solution? Use a current mirror to pass a small sensing current into the load, like so:
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Q1 sinks a small current from the connected load, turning on Q2 and bringing signal LOAD_PRESENT_N low. If there is no load connected, Q1 and Q2 will be off, so LOAD_PRESENT_N will be high.
Ideally you want to use a matched pair for Q1/Q2, but for this kind of basic use separate NPNs should be ok.
EDIT: add to the above: a weak pull-up to the load (+) side to complete the low-current sense circuit. The sensing would only be used when the motor is idle, such as during initial power on or during a diag self-test.
Also note that the sensing connections are to the motor, not to the Rsense on the H-bridge low side. You still need Rsense for the error amplifier, and it should be a low value (like 0.1 ohm or so) to minimize power loss.