It's not quite "absolute value" -- it's "magnitude", and is defined to be the square root of the number times it's complex conjugate -- \$ \sqrt{ X \cdot X^*}\$. This is what Matlab does when it takes the absolute value of a complex number.
To take the complex conjugate, just replace the \$j\$ with \$-j\$.
When you do the multiplication, you'll see that all of the complex terms (i.e., odd powers of j) will end up cancelled out through subtraction, and of course even powers of j are real.
If you do this, and develop a little more facility with complex numbers, along with remembering that \$j^2= -1\$ you won't have to remember any tricks or formulas or theorems. It will work all the time.
So, Let's look at the magnitude of Z
$$ Z= R- \frac{j}{\omega C}$$
$$ Z^*= R + \frac{j}{\omega C}$$
$$|Z|=\sqrt{ZZ^*}= \sqrt{R^2 - \frac{jR}{\omega C}+\frac{jR}{\omega C}+ \frac{1}{\omega^2C^2}}= \sqrt{R^2+ \frac{1}{\omega^2C^2}}$$
Now, lets look at your example
$$ I = \frac{V_o}{Z}= \frac{V_o}{R-\frac{j}{\omega C}}$$
Multiply the numerator and denominator by the complex conjugate of the denominator (i.e., multiply by 1, which is always allowed):
$$\frac{V_o}{Z}= \frac{V_o}{R-\frac{j}{\omega C}}\cdot \frac{R+\frac{j}{\omega C}}{R+\frac{j}{\omega C}} =\frac{ V_o \left[ R+\frac{j}{\omega C} \right]}{R^2 + \frac{1}{\omega^2 C^2}}\text{,}$$
which is your middle equation. Note that the denominator is a real number, so you can just factor that out if you need to go on and figure out the magnitude of the numerator.
So all of this, combined with the understanding that all of this complex math will yield a vector in the complex plane, and that the magnitude is the length of the vector, and the angle is the angle of clockwise rotation (i.e., \$\tan^{-1}\left( \frac{\mathbb{I}\text{m}}{\mathbb{R}\text{e}}\right) \$) will answer all of your series of recent questions on the manipulation of these sorts.
Vo
.... Norm(I) =Vo / sqrt(R^2 + 1/(W*C)^2)
Norm(V) * Norm(I) = numerator squared / same denominator \$\endgroup\$