I don't fancy doing a complete precise-to-the-ohm analysis of this, and it's not really necessary. Instead, we can make some observations which will really simplify things. Start with a suitably labelled schematic:
simulate this circuit – Schematic created using CircuitLab
For example, we can say that negative feedback will cause the op-amp to adjust its output \$V_X\$ to whatever potential is necessary to equalise the potentials of its two inputs, \$V_P\$ and \$V_Q\$. That fact would eventually emerge from a complete analysis, as a consequence of taking the limit as \$A\rightarrow \infty\$, but it's much easier to start with this equality:
$$ V_P = V_Q $$
A second observation is that current in \$R_4\$ and \$R_3\$ is three orders of magnitude smaller than load current in \$R_L\$. I'll make the statement that:
$$ I_L = I_S $$
This allows us to avoid the ugly arithmetic associated with the parallel combination of \$(R_3+R_4) \parallel R_L\$. Then we have this simple expression for \$V_Y\$:
$$
\begin{aligned}
V_Y &= V_X - I_SR_S \\ \\
&= V_X - I_LR_S
\end{aligned}
$$
Perhaps you already see the implication that any algebra from this point on is independent of \$R_L\$. Perhaps, also, you begin to see the role that \$R_S\$ is playing here, somehow involved in setting transconductance, the ratio \$\frac{I_L}{V_{IN}}\$.
Let's continue, though:
$$
\begin{aligned}
V_P &= V_Y \frac{R_3}{R_3+R_4} \\ \\
&= \frac{10}{111}V_Y \\ \\
&= \frac{10}{111}(V_X - I_LR_S) \\ \\
\end{aligned}
$$
Also:
$$
\begin{aligned}
V_Q &= V_{IN} + (V_X-V_{IN})\frac{R_1}{R_1+R_2} \\ \\
&= V_{IN} + (V_X-V_{IN}) \frac{10}{111} \\ \\
&= \left(1 - \frac{10}{111}\right)V_{IN} + \frac{10}{111} V_X \\ \\
&= \frac{101}{111} V_{IN} + \frac{10}{111} V_X \\ \\
\end{aligned}
$$
Since \$V_P=V_Q\$, we can equate these two expressions, and rearrange to find \$I_L\$ as the subject:
$$
\begin{aligned}
\frac{101}{111} V_{IN} + \frac{10}{111} V_X &= \frac{10}{111}(V_X - I_LR_S) \\ \\
10.1V_{IN} + V_X &= V_X - I_LR_S \\ \\
I_L &= -10.1\frac{V_{IN}}{R_S}
\end{aligned}
$$
It seems that you must adjust \$R_S\$ to set your desired relationship between \$I_L\$ and \$V_{IN}\$. Also, as long as \$R_3\$ and \$R_4\$ are large compared to \$R_S\$. this relationship is independent of load resistance \$R_L\$.
The last thing to address is the role of the potentiometer in the original circuit. It allows you to change the transconductance (closed-loop gain) very slightly, above and below the center value of −10.1 calculated above.
Essentially, it makes \$R_4\$ variable between 10.0kΩ and 10.2kΩ, permitting transconductance to be adjusted to exactly \$-2.5AV^{-1}\$. Other than this "trimming" role, it has no significant influence over transconductance, which is squarely in the hands of \$R_S\$.