the speed of electrons in CRO is huge (~1/10th the speed of light). So
even small magnetic fields should affect the motion greatly.
Magnetic force is proportional to velocity, but the force required to produce the same deflection radius is proportional to velocity squared, so a faster beam will be deflected less than a slower beam.
So why is neglecting it reasonable?
The force on the electron beam is perpendicular to the magnetic field, so to deflect the beam across the tube face the magnetic field has to be parallel to it. However when AC current is passed through a capacitor it generates a circular magnetic field between the plates. As the beam passes between the plates it is deflected first one way and then the other as it crosses magnetic fields going in either direction, so overall the deflections tend to cancel out.
In a typical Oscilloscope tube the capacitance between deflection plates is only 1~2pF, so the displacement current at normal operating frequencies is small. The magnetic field produced is equivalent to the field around a single wire passing the same current, so if the plates were eg. 10mm wide and had a capacitance 2pF, and 100V was applied at 1GHz causing a current of ~1A, then ~0.2 Gauss would be produced - less than half that of the Earth's magnetic field. And much of that would cancel out.
At extremely high frequencies the magnetic deflection could be large to have a noticeable effect, but then other effects of the high frequency also become apparent. At GHz frequencies the electrostatic deflection amplitude reduces because the electrostatic field changes as the electrons are passing between the plates. At even higher frequencies deflection varies depending on the phase when the beam exits the plates.
At frequencies high enough for the magnetic field to become noticeable the tube has probably already lost its ability to faithfully reproduce any waveform other than a sine wave, and the amplitude is highly frequency dependent even without considering magnetic effects.