Summarizing the specs from the discussion so far:
Working distance 30 - 100 cm
Spot separation "as close as possible" but presumably the beams need to be well-separated
Total power 8x8x5 mW, approx. 400 mW
Independent switching of each beam, "not terribly fast"
Basically any solution will be challenging to implement for a beginner. There is a major time-money tradeoff as well. Given the questioner's level of experience, it's hard to imagine setting this up for much less than $5k if it's meant to get done within a few months.
I think the best solution is to get a single high-power laser and use a spatial light modulator (SLM) to make the pattern. You can imagine the SLM as being subdivided into an 8x8 array. Then each region of the SLM can be set up as a mirror with variable focal length. Switching between focal length of 30 cm and infinity will change the intensity at the spot. Alternatively, you could switch the SLM pattern to divert the beam entirely away from the target.
Get laser safety training before starting this project. Laser jocks have an old saying: "Do not look into laser with remaining eye".
Step by step:
- Set up a low-power diode laser and controller (e.g., a model HL6756MG laser). Use a telescope to expand the beam so that it nearly fills the SLM.
- Set up the SLM and test out some patterns. A lot of SLMs can be controlled over VGA just like a computer monitor. The SDE1024 SLM from Cambridge Correlators seems like a good bet for you.
- Program the SLM with a Fresnel mirror array and check out the quality of your spots on target. A Fresnel mirror is the reflecting counterpart of a Fresnel lens (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fresnel_lens).
- Switch out the diode laser for a higher-power model (e.g., the SLD1332V, with 500 mW power).
And you're done.
Thorlabs is probably the best place to purchase generic optics equipment. They would have all the diode laser and controller stuff. I only suggest Cambridge Correlators for the SLM because it's cheaper and specifically designed for beginners.