Often, for practical purposes, we do not draw a distinction between a voltage drop through a component and an electromotive force generated through that component. Both are measured in volts. However, sometimes the distinction needs to be drawn in order to avoid running into apparent paradoxes.
The voltage drop through a component is the line integral of the electric field through that component.
$$U = \int_a^b \vec{E} \cdot d\vec{s}$$
The emf generated by an inductor is the line integral of the rotational component of the electric field through that component.
$$\mathscr{E} = \int_a^b \vec{E}_{rot} \cdot d\vec{s}$$
According to Kirchhoff's Voltage Law, around any loop, the sum of the EMFs through the components in the loop equals the sum of the voltage drops through the components of the loop.
$$\sum_i \mathscr{E}_i = \sum_i U_i$$
Or in Kirchhoff's original presentation
$$\sum_i \mathscr{E}_i = \sum_i I_iR_i$$
where \$I_i\$ is the current through a component, and \$R_i\$ is the resistance offered to that current by that component.
You are correct that the voltage drop, as defined above, through an inductor depends upon the resistance of the wire and the current through it.
The two ends of the inductor are connected via zero resistance through the coil of the inductor itself and therefore wouldn't the voltage across the two ends of the inductor always be zero?
For an ideal inductor, where the resistance is 0, the voltage drop across it will be 0. However, the EMF generated by an inductor will result in a voltage drop across resistances that are connected to the inductor in a circuit loop. Thus, if you connect a volt-meter across the terminals of an inductor (experiencing changing current), a voltage drop will be present across the volt-meter, and hence the volt-meter will give a reading proportional to the EMF generated by the inductor, rather than the voltage drop through the inductor. In a sense, the EMF causes a voltage drop elsewhere in the circuit.