If you drive the optocoupler STRONGLY, the receiver diode will be strongly conducting, making the receiver more immune to charge coming thru the 0.6pF between TX and RX.
Assuming 1mA thru the RX diode, assume that 1mA produces a 26 ohm resistance at the diode bias point.
You certainly should expect to inject up to 50% of that 1mA into the Rx diode, without upsetting the data movement. I'd dial that back to 10%, for safety.
What does 10% of 1mA mean, thru a coupling cap of 0.6pF?
Given 1pF and 1 volt per nanosecond will produce 1mA, we know 0.6pF and 1.6 volts per nanosecond will also produce 1mA.
Since we cannot control the 0.6PF, your only adjustable knob is the slewrate. To reach 10%, you must have a SLOWER edge of interference between TX and RX.
For safety, you need your interference to be slower than 0.16 volts per nanosecond.
OR you need filtering across the RX side of the optocoupler.