Consider a synchronous buck converter that is off, inductor voltage is 0, capacitor voltage is 0.
The moment the high-side switch is turned on for the first time (no matter for high long). There will be a di/dt = (Vin-0)/L flowing through the inductor and through the high side switch.
Soft-start mechanisms reduce the Ton time of the high side and gradually increase it but I don't understand how that helps reduce inrush current. No matter how long you keep the high side on for, at the first instant of turn on, it will take the full di/dt of Vin/L.
So how does soft-start help anything?